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From AmberOctober 7, 2026

A Refresh on Refusal of Care: When Someone With Dementia Refuses Care — Understanding the Why Behind the Resistance

— by Amber


Refusing a shower, medication, or getting dressed is rarely defiance — it is usually communication. Amber walks through the reasons behind resistance, how to watch your words, and ten gentle ways to respond.

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