From AmberSeptember 22, 2026
When They Refuse a Shower, They May Be Asking for Safety
— by Amber
What looks like refusing a shower isn't always about the shower. Sometimes it's fear, vulnerability, or loss of control — and sometimes the answer is as simple as Elvis.
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